Learning to Deal

Success in life come from being able to evolve through problems using mistakes as learning experiences forcing internal evolution of the soul.

Quite a grand statement from someone who is no one. But I disagree, I am a unique individual whom in midlife is an product of two children of the 60's, married alcoholics in the 70's, divorced alcoholics in the 80's, and still ranting in 2008. Survival alone until the age of adultness was, I am told by many, an accomplishment by itself.

However instead I took the time to get away, explore & acclimate with "normal" society, all be it alone and with no job skills or drivers license. Through many years of bad decisions I managed to take out loans & work to get through a bachelors degree and, with the help of angels that are my friends, a 'real job' in ten years.

Now I face tasks, like many my age, of beginning to take on the responsibility of my life
and my parents welfare. Not their life but partially their well being as they have done and still do for me separately and passively bitching about each other.

Which brings me back to 'being able to evolve through problems making mistakes into learning experiences and forcing internal evolution' to solve life's problems/hurdles/speed bumps/bad decisions. Leading me to provide the conclusion that the sucess comes from how you deal with problems.